BDSM Coaching

BDSM is a wonderful way to expand your sensuality, get to know new and intimate parts of yourself, and even meet new people. Whether you are interested in strictly bedroom play or full-time power exchange relationships, it might be difficult to navigate this journey on your own. Kink is a wide world of pleasure that can be super intimidating to break into. There is a lot to learn about consent, communication, safety, and hard skills before you get started! There is a sociality to BDSM that takes time and community to learn. A BDSM coach can help to answer all your burning questions without shame and draw on their expertise to guide you into a more fulfilling erotic life.

Learn Safety + Skills

Build Power Dynamics

Daemonum X is an experienced queer BDSM practitioner and educator who engages in power exchange relationships and has been participating in kink to varying degrees since 2012. As a sort of pleasure doula, she has helped many people discover their interests, learn new skills, and experience exciting, new sensations.

BDSM coaching with Daemonum X will help you discover your kink identity, teach you how to you mine your desires, and work with you to achieve your goals in erotic self-actualization. This is always an empowering journey and you may find that your new skills will serve all aspects of your life.

Individuals or couples interested in D/s or power exchange relationships will benefit from coaching by learning both skills and ethics of playing within a role-based container. There are many layers of preparation for both Dominants and submissives before entering into a power exchange relationship. Prepare individually and/or with a partner for how to communicate, advocate for your needs, and co-create an engaging and life-changing relationship. Daemonum X’s philosophy is that D/s is spiritual and participation for all people should be generative and extremely intentional.

You’ll benefit from BDSM coaching with Daemonum X if:

  • You want to start exploring BDSM and don’t know where to begin

  • You’re unsure of how to play safely and ethically

  • You want to figure out what you’re interested in

  • You’re unsure of play partner vetting practices

  • You and your partner want to begin a D/s relationship and want a guide to help you prepare

  • You’re hesitant about stepping into your kink persona

  • You’re kinky but none of your friends are and you need support

  • You want formal, ethical mentorship in Dominance, sadism, and/or topping

  • You have violated someone’s consent in the past and need help working on boundaries

Pricing + Packages:

Consultation: Book a free 20 minute phone consultation to find out if Daemonum X is the right coach for you

General Advice: One-off sessions where the client seeks very specific advice (via phone, Facetime, Zoom, and texting available upon request). . Sliding scale $75-$150 / hour for individuals, $150-$225 / hour for couples.

BDSM Boot Camp: Book a six week course tailored to your interests and specific place in your journey. All participants will gain a better understanding of consent, their own kink persona, and how to play with power ethically and benevolently. This is a time commitment of a one hour virtual session per week with worksheets and journal prompts in between. You will receive unlimited access to text the coach with questions throughout the duration of the course. $650 for individuals, $1,000 for couples.